Alan Bersten and Emma Slater Reflect on Their Transition From Friendship to Romance

Alan Bersten and Emma Slater are sharing details about their relationship journey on the ballroom floor and beyond.

The Dancing With the Stars co-stars—aged 32 and 37 respectively—recently spoke candidly about their romance, which became public last year. Bersten expressed his surprise at how long it took for their feelings to develop, telling E! News: "It's one of those things where you just look and you're like, 'Why haven't we? And then it's just been so special.'"

Slater emphasized the strength of their foundation before romance entered the picture. "We've always been really good friends, and now we have a great relationship. It feels really good," she said.

The couple has embraced the lifestyle that comes with their professional commitments. Bersten highlighted the perks of their demanding schedule: "We get to travel a lot. And we try to enjoy the cities and the moments, the dinners and just our little dog Jeff as much as we can. And that's what really grounds me."

Slater noted that navigating their busy careers together has its own rewards. "The busy bits are fun too," she explained. "If you find enjoyment in that. And you're able to support each other whilst doing seemingly stressful things, it's not so stressful."

The pair made their relationship official with a kiss onstage during the final night of the Dancing With the Stars live tour in 2025. Slater has also addressed speculation about her future with the show—she initially joined the competition series in season 14 before earning a promotion to pro status in season 17.